Hello all, my name is Tristan, and I am one-fourth of the Swinky Life crew and co-host of The Accidental Swingers podcast with my wife of nearly 30 years, Myrina. I am difficult to define and I generally eschew labels, however some elements are consistent: I am naturally submissive and I consider myself a hedonist […]
What is this about? Swinky 103: A Beginners Guide to Bedroom Rope Play is our workshop for curious couples (well, honestly, for anyone curious) about getting into rope play in the bedroom. We frame it this way on purpose… this is not a class on suspension, or predicaments, or strenuous, challenging rope artistry. This class […]
Hi, my name is Crimson Dragonfly. I am one of the members of Swinky Life, and we are all writing a quick blog to introduce ourselves: This is me.. Swinger. Polyamorous. Kinkster. Sensualist. Slut. Explorer. My journey into BDSM and consensual non-monogamy began about 7 years ago when my husband (Phoenix Phyre) suggested that we […]
This blog was written by me, Phoenix Phyre. While everyone at Swinky Life is very open minded and all accepting, I am, by self definition, a cisgendered straight male (he/him/hey you) and speak personally from that perspective. Here at Swinky Life, we strive to be respectful to everyone, including not asking anyone to be PC… […]
Hi, my name is Phoenix Phyre, and I am one of the co-founders of Swinky Life. As things are beginning to pick up for us, we thought it would be good to publish a quick series of blogs to introduce ourselves, and this is mine. One of the things we want to make sure people […]
We get questions from both swingers and kinksters, asking us why we have any attraction to the other group. What’s the attraction? How can you do that?. When we present workshops at swinger and kink events, we are often asked to teach our “Bridging the Gap” workshop. “Bridging the Gap Between Swingers and Kink” provides […]
The last couple of years have been difficult for many people, and we are no different. This derailed many of our business goals, and we had to cancel multiple engagements. We have had many health and family challenges along the way, some that still continue to this very day. Things Are Getting Better And it […]
Our First Live Presentation While 2021 has definitely been more challenging than we hoped, we have continued to push forward and get more engaged and involved where we could, and this month we finally had our first, in person, live presentation at Florida Power Exchange. Bridging the Gap Between Swinging and Kink We offered them […]
Here we come N’awlins! We are so thrilled to announce that we will be attending Naughty N’awlins, not only as very happy attendees, but also as presenters!! Laissez les bons temps rouler It has been a wild and crazy ride, literally since the day we officially created Swinky Life. Covid kicked off a series of […]
Announcing Our New Partnership with Dating Kinky As we have said here earlier, Covid was a challenging time for us, and one of the things we focused on during that time was making connections within the community. We also have other projects we are involved with, including some podcasts, and we put a lot of […]