The Swinky Life team were crowned the Kings and Queens of Naughty N’awlins.
Category Archives: BDSM
Bondage, Domination, Sadism, Masochism… the traditional, serious, more hardcore description of much of what we do.
After returning home, we wanted to write a team blog post about our experiences. Myrina and I both wrote our own blogs first, and then began to work to blend them. We quickly realized we both have our own voice and opinion, and chose to each publish our own, and point our readers to the […]
This blog was written by me, Phoenix Phyre. While everyone at Swinky Life is very open minded and all accepting, I am, by self definition, a cisgendered straight male (he/him/hey you) and speak personally from that perspective. Here at Swinky Life, we strive to be respectful to everyone, including not asking anyone to be PC… […]
We get questions from both swingers and kinksters, asking us why we have any attraction to the other group. What’s the attraction? How can you do that?. When we present workshops at swinger and kink events, we are often asked to teach our “Bridging the Gap” workshop. “Bridging the Gap Between Swingers and Kink” provides […]
Announcing Our New Partnership with Dating Kinky As we have said here earlier, Covid was a challenging time for us, and one of the things we focused on during that time was making connections within the community. We also have other projects we are involved with, including some podcasts, and we put a lot of […]
Almost everyone will tell you that safety is very important, and they are right. The world of kink and BDSM covers a lot of territory, and much of it is edgy and inherently dangerous. Even though our goal at Swinky Life is to introduce you the the “lighter, gentler” side of kink play, safety is […]
In our last blog, we talked about some of the more common questions we get from our swinger friends about why we enjoy kink so much. This question is far and away the most common. So in this blog post, we are going to take this question on and dispel some misunderstandings. Hopefully this will […]
There are many aspects of kink that are interesting and exciting. As we mentioned in our previous blog “Why do you spend all this time doing this stuff?”, trust, intimacy, and heightened emotional states are all things that can make kinky play interesting, exciting and worthwhile. Yet it can go even deeper than that. Kink […]
When most people think kink, they think “Tie me to the bed and spank me” … WE think “Wrap me up in rope… tease me as you tie each limb down…when I am immobilized, let your fingers show me where you have access that I cannot do anything about… tease me until I am wet […]
What in the world is SwinkyLife? For us, SwinkyLife is LIFE at the intersection of swinging and kink. We created SwinkyLife as a way to introduce any interested person(s) to the fun, joy, and personal rewards that can be found in kink play. A common misconception about kink is that it is all hardcore BDSM […]