Category Archives: BDSM

Bondage, Domination, Sadism, Masochism… the traditional, serious, more hardcore description of much of what we do.

Swinky Life at Naughty N’awlins

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After returning home, we wanted to write a team blog post about our experiences. Myrina and I both wrote our own blogs first, and then began to work to blend them. We quickly realized we both have our own voice and opinion, and chose to each publish our own, and point our readers to the […]

Kink 101 Workshop: Why Don’t You Just Fuck?

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This blog was written by me, Phoenix Phyre. While everyone at Swinky Life is very open minded and all accepting, I am, by self definition, a cisgendered straight male (he/him/hey you) and speak personally from that perspective. Here at Swinky Life, we strive to be respectful to everyone, including not asking anyone to be PC… […]

Bridging the Gap Between Swingers and Kink

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We get questions from both swingers and kinksters, asking us why we have any attraction to the other group. What’s the attraction? How can you do that?. When we present workshops at swinger and kink events, we are often asked to teach our “Bridging the Gap” workshop. “Bridging the Gap Between Swingers and Kink” provides […]

Living the Swinky Life with Dating Kinky

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Announcing Our New Partnership with Dating Kinky As we have said here earlier, Covid was a challenging time for us, and one of the things we focused on during that time was making connections within the community. We also have other projects we are involved with, including some podcasts, and we put a lot of […]

Why do you find kink exciting?

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There are many aspects of kink that are interesting and exciting.  As we mentioned in our previous blog “Why do you spend all this time doing this stuff?”, trust, intimacy, and heightened emotional states are all things that can make kinky play interesting, exciting and worthwhile.  Yet it can go even deeper than that.  Kink […]