Hi There!! Welcome to SwinkyLife!

What in the world is SwinkyLife? For us, SwinkyLife is LIFE at the intersection of swinging and kink. We created SwinkyLife as a way to introduce any interested person(s) to the fun, joy, and personal rewards that can be found in kink play.  A common misconception about kink is that it is all hardcore BDSM play; however, long before you reach anything close to hardcore, there is an amazing universe of fun and games that you can add into your normal lifestyle activities to expand your experiences in incredible and exciting new ways. 

SwinkyLife’s mission is to present people with practical and concrete tools that they can use to explore kink in a manner that they find comfortable and exciting.  We want to provide a forum where open-minded people, exploring or enjoying an alternative, non-traditional lifestyle, can come for information, and find a safe place for investigation, resources, tools and ideas in all things kink. We want to help them take the next step in their Lifestyle journey – as little or as much as they choose.

So who IS SwinkyLife? We are two long-time married couples in our 50s whose journeys in the Lifestyle are relatively young (4 years and less than 2 years).  The four of us have become very close and have discovered that we share a common love of kinky play of all kinds. In the time that we have gotten to know each other, our experiences have shown us that, while we THOUGHT all swingers would be totally into kinky fun, that is not always the case.  Some people find kinky play scary or view it as deviant.Many people shy away from kinky fun because they think it involves pain or humiliation.But what is kinky to one person – a little spanking or a little hair pulling – may be routine for someone else. 

It seems that every  time we are at a party and begin rope or impact play (2 of our favorite kinky ways to play) with a playmate, we are inevitably asked questions by curious on-lookers like “Why is this interesting or exciting for you?”, “Why do you spend all this time doing that stuff?”, or “Why don’t you just fuck?”.   Well, there are a lot of reasons why!And so, we created SwinkyLife to be a platform to bring the joy of all kinds, styles and levels of kink to anyone who wants to learn more about it.

So, welcome to your SwinkyLife!!  We’re happy you’re here! 

~ PhoenixPhyre, Myrina, Crimson Dragonfly & Tristan