The Accidental Swinksters? As we mentioned in our last blog post, the sister project our dear friends and lovers launched last year, The Accidental Swingers, has done very well. Last year, they focused on telling their story as they got into the lifestyle. This year, they will be shaking things up a bit, and intermixing […]
And just like that, it is all over… With a sad little whimper, 2020 came to a close last week. And while it is nice to say “Fuck Off!!” to 2020, as many have quickly pointed out, yes, there is a new number on the calendar, but beyond that, Covid still rages, and in the […]
Rope Work During Covid As the covid virus continues to ravage our country, our social bubble of the polyamorous quad continues to look for ways to stay sane and enjoy what we can of the lifestyle. Since we all still have older children living at home, this can be challenging. So we have adopted a […]
PodFest is coming Next week, the PodFest Global Summit is going on. Among many other interesting things happening there, they are attempting to break an official Guinness world record. We are participating in the event in a few ways, and we want to support this team and their community, so we are also giving them […]
Welcome to the new normal The ongoing pandemic continues to wreak havoc with everyone’s social lives and vacation plans. As the global pandemic geared up, our group of friends here at Swinky Life began to seriously consider how this might impact us. From our workshops that we hoped to do at several lifestyle conferences, to […]
Welcome to the new normal. This is a very different blog than I ever envisioned when this site was created. This site is all about blending swinging with kinky… both of those involve lots of human contact, and frankly, the basic concepts are about expanding relationships. Sadly, the current state of the world is strongly […]
Almost everyone will tell you that safety is very important, and they are right. The world of kink and BDSM covers a lot of territory, and much of it is edgy and inherently dangerous. Even though our goal at Swinky Life is to introduce you the the “lighter, gentler” side of kink play, safety is […]
In our last blog, we talked about some of the more common questions we get from our swinger friends about why we enjoy kink so much. This question is far and away the most common. So in this blog post, we are going to take this question on and dispel some misunderstandings. Hopefully this will […]
When most people think kink, they think “Tie me to the bed and spank me” … WE think “Wrap me up in rope… tease me as you tie each limb down…when I am immobilized, let your fingers show me where you have access that I cannot do anything about… tease me until I am wet […]
What in the world is SwinkyLife? For us, SwinkyLife is LIFE at the intersection of swinging and kink. We created SwinkyLife as a way to introduce any interested person(s) to the fun, joy, and personal rewards that can be found in kink play. A common misconception about kink is that it is all hardcore BDSM […]