Posts that describe who we are, what we do, and why we are different.
The Accidental Swinksters? As we mentioned in our last blog post, the sister project our dear friends and lovers launched last year, The Accidental Swingers, has done very well. Last year, they focused on telling their story as they got into the lifestyle. This year, they will be shaking things up a bit, and intermixing […]
And just like that, it is all over… With a sad little whimper, 2020 came to a close last week. And while it is nice to say “Fuck Off!!” to 2020, as many have quickly pointed out, yes, there is a new number on the calendar, but beyond that, Covid still rages, and in the […]
This blog was first published by The Accidental Swingers, the other half of our poly square. Last weekend we all just wanted to get away. Out of town. No kids, no pets, no housework, no yardwork, no responsibilities. But where could we go and what could we do that would feel like, at least a […]
Almost everyone will tell you that safety is very important, and they are right. The world of kink and BDSM covers a lot of territory, and much of it is edgy and inherently dangerous. Even though our goal at Swinky Life is to introduce you the the “lighter, gentler” side of kink play, safety is […]
In our last blog, we talked about some of the more common questions we get from our swinger friends about why we enjoy kink so much. This question is far and away the most common. So in this blog post, we are going to take this question on and dispel some misunderstandings. Hopefully this will […]
There are many aspects of kink that are interesting and exciting. As we mentioned in our previous blog “Why do you spend all this time doing this stuff?”, trust, intimacy, and heightened emotional states are all things that can make kinky play interesting, exciting and worthwhile. Yet it can go even deeper than that. Kink […]
When most people think kink, they think “Tie me to the bed and spank me” … WE think “Wrap me up in rope… tease me as you tie each limb down…when I am immobilized, let your fingers show me where you have access that I cannot do anything about… tease me until I am wet […]
What in the world is SwinkyLife? For us, SwinkyLife is LIFE at the intersection of swinging and kink. We created SwinkyLife as a way to introduce any interested person(s) to the fun, joy, and personal rewards that can be found in kink play. A common misconception about kink is that it is all hardcore BDSM […]